-If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
-Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
-Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. (NO MAN IS A GOOD REASON TO VOID COMMON SENCE)
-Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
-Slower is better.
-Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
-If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then HELL NO, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
-Don’t settle. (WHY SHOULD YOU? YOU DESERVE TO HAVE EVERYTHING YOU WANT TOO)
-If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
-Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
-The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
-Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
-Always have your own set of friends separate from his. (IF YOU BREAK UP ITS GOING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE)
-Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
-If something bothers you, speak up but never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
-You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
-Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job. (REMEMBER YOU’RE TO FABULOUS TO BE HIS WOOD BE SIDE KICK DEMAND YOUR 50/50 REGUARDLESS OF YALL SITUATION.)
-Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
- Never let a man define who you are.
- Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
- A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. (READ THIS TWICE AND EXECUTE)
- All men are NOT dogs.
-You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
-You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
-You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
-Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
-Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
-Never move into his mother’s house. (DONT DO IT YOU’LL FIND YOURSELF IN A FUKK SHIT SITUATION AND YOU WONT WIN!)
-Never co-sign for a man. ( Ive learned this from experience, DONT DO IT!)
- Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. -Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
